•By Shoshana Ort
The Hidden Question Beneath Every Argument
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Most relationship fights aren't actually about what they're about.
The argument may start over dirty dishes, money, intimacy, parenting, or who forgot to send a text message. But if you've ever found yourself wondering why such a small issue turned into such a painful fight, you're not alone.
Because underneath many conflicts is a much deeper question:
"Do I matter to you?"
It's not usually the dishes that hurt. It's what the dishes come to represent. It's the feeling that your needs don't matter. It's the fear that you're carrying the relationship alone. It's the worry that the person you love most isn't really seeing you.
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